In a poignant revelation in HBO’s latest documentary “Shaq,” basketball legend Shaquille O’Neal opens up about the personal losses that have deeply affected his life and mental health, including the death of his sister Ayesha Harrison-Jex and his close friend and former teammate Kobe Bryant. These back-to-back tragedies have not only left O’Neal grieving but also struggling with chronic insomnia.
“Shaq” delves into the life of one of basketball’s most dominant figures, revealing the complexities and vulnerabilities of a man known for his larger-than-life persona. One of the more touching aspects of the documentary focuses on O’Neal’s role as a protective older brother. Growing up as an unusually large child, Shaq naturally assumed the role of family protector, particularly for his three siblings with whom he shares a special bond.
Tragedy first struck in October 2019 when Shaq’s sister, Ayesha, lost her prolonged battle with cancer at the age of 40. Ayesha had fought the disease several times over the years, and each time she had prevailed. Her final battle, however, ended in heartbreak for the O’Neal family, leaving Shaq devastated. His co-host, Ernie Johnson, commented in the documentary on how deeply Ayesha’s death affected Shaq, plunging him into a world of pain.
Merely three months later, Shaq faced another profound loss with the sudden passing of Kobe Bryant in a tragic helicopter crash in January 2020. Bryant was more than just a teammate to Shaq; he was like a little brother. Their relationship had its complexities, marked by both fierce rivalry and deep respect. The pair led the Los Angeles Lakers to three consecutive NBA championships and are remembered as one of the most formidable duos in basketball history.
The documentary reveals Shaq’s emotional turmoil following these losses, notably his battle with insomnia. “I don’t go to bed till 5 AM… Ever since Kobe [Bryant] and my sister died I can’t sleep,” Shaq shares candidly, highlighting how grief has disrupted his normal life routines. The loss of two people so integral to his life in quick succession left him grappling with an overwhelming sadness and a profound sense of regret over lost time and unspoken words.
Despite these personal challenges, “Shaq” also portrays his resilience and how he continues to engage with the world positively. Whether as a sports analyst, businessman, or entertainer, Shaq uses his public platform to spread joy and laughter, even when dealing with personal grief.
This documentary not only provides an intimate look at Shaq’s career and basketball prowess but also paints a deeply human portrait of a man dealing with grief and loss. It reminds viewers that behind the public figures and athletes they idolize are real human emotions and struggles.
“Shaq” is as much a story about basketball as it is about life’s inevitable challenges and the strength required to face them. It’s a compelling narrative that encourages an empathetic view towards those we often see as invincible.